Marriage Counseling, Couples Therapy and Sex Therapy in Rochester, NY.
In person and Online Counseling for individuals and couples that want to experience satisfaction and joy in their relationships and their sex life.
Things are bad in the bedroom because your relationship is not going well. Your relationship and communication difficulties are a result of your sexual frustration.
You can play the “chicken or the egg” but the fact is that your sexual satisfaction and your relationship satisfaction are interconnected.
You lay in bed awake thinking about how long it’s been and can’t decide if you want to initiate sex with your partner that night or just go to sleep.
You struggle because if they say yes you are not sure if they really mean it or if they are doing it out of obligation.
“Is he not attracted to me anymore?”
“Maybe I can’t satisfy her anymore”
“Is there someone else?”
You can’t get these questions out of your mind. Your sex life is not satisfying anymore and that worries you. You wonder how long you can go on like this.
What you want is to look at each other and remember why you chose to be together, even when things are hard. What you crave is to move from emptiness and disconnection to warmth and closeness. What you need is to feel wanted and desired again.
I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and a trained Sex Therapist, and I help angry or distant couples like each other again.
Understand the root of your relationship struggle and learn skills and tools you can use to bring change that will get you back to enjoying life with your partner again.
Explore your partner’s and your intimacy needs (emotional and sexual) and get rid of myths that created expectations in your head that led you two to gridlock.
Learn the facts that will help normalize your struggle and arm yourself with understanding and knowledge that will allow to take your intimacy to a very different level.
Sometimes you know it’s over. My wish for you is to learn how to uncouple with dignity and respect in a way that will help you maintain your integrity in the face of all the decisions that you and your partner will still have to make together in the future.
Contact me today and start rediscovering your potential.
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Find new ways to connect sexually with your partner that will bring more satisfaction and will ease your anxiety about performing.
Raise the bar in your relationship and learn how to have hard conversations that lead to more emotional and sexual intimacy and connection, instead of tearing each other apart.
Couples Counseling and Sex Therapy Online
Whether you are a stay home mom and you can't leave the house during nap time or a busy professional who only has a break during lunch, therapy is available to you.