In person and online therapy and coaching for individuals and couples that want to experience more satisfaction and joy in their intimate relationships.
Things are bad in the bedroom because your relationship is not going well.
Your relationship and communication difficulties are a result of your sexual frustration.
You can play the “chicken or the egg” but the fact is that your sexual satisfaction and your relationship satisfaction are interconnected.
You lay in bed awake thinking about how long it’s been and can’t decide if you want to initiate sex with your partner that night or just go to sleep.
You struggle because if they say yes you are not sure if they really mean it or if they are doing it out of obligation.
“Is he not attracted to me anymore?”
“Maybe I can’t satisfy her anymore”
“Is there someone else?”
You can’t get these questions out of your head and the fact that your sex life is struggling makes you worry about the future of your relationship.
How long can you go on like this?
What you want is to look at each other, and feel like your partner has your back.
What you crave is to move from anger, resentment and disconnection to warmth and closeness.
What you need is to feel desired and wanted again. To feel alive and vibrant.